Sorry its late but good luck bryan!
Sorry its late but good luck bryan!
Bryan (18-08-2009)
well i have the letter written now, and im going to post it once i get back to uni the end of next week. i do feel bad not telling them face to face, but there is no way i have the strength or courage to and its impossible to find the words when your telling them and theyre breaking down in tears or going mad. plus dont really fancy the aftermath with my dad treating me like a lepper.
I think its really brave letter or face to face writing it must have took courage and strength. Hope it goes well for you.
Relationship talk with parents is always difficult, especially for me, i just don't like talking about things like that. my sister can, but i can;t. Its just the way i am i think.
Bryan (18-08-2009)
There's nothing to be ashamed of by writing a letter bry, your not doing anything wrong.
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Bryan (18-08-2009)
Bry, you have to do what feels right for you.. if you can't handle telling them face to face then you are doing the right thing with sending the letter. This will give them both time to listen to what you have to say, without interuption and they can then think about how you are feeling. Best of luck Bry and try not to worry about it when letter is sent, you are doing the right thing and what is best for you. So glad you are not been someone you are not just to please others.. xxxxx
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Bryan (19-08-2009)
I would do exactly the same in your situation Bryan. I always find that when I'm put under pressure, it doesn't matter how many times I've rehearsed something; it never turns out the way it was meant to. At least with the letter you could write it as many times as you wanted until it was exactly as you wanted it. Good luck
Bryan (19-08-2009)
I am a lesbian and 'came out' to my friends and family just after my 16th birthday after my parents inital shock they are gradually coming to terms with it all.
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