Grrrrrrrrrrrrr Men

[Skits]

i agree with siobhan. serious talking needs to be done and the sooner the better.

[twinkle_eyes83]

yeah but things like that he is not the type to sit down and talk thats were we are not the same i will but he want itslike when i go on msn or something he gets the hump and starts saying iam seeing some one yeah right when all my contact are girls and 2 boys cousin and brother

[lollymay]

you really do need to talk because the children will pick up on it, as when my mum and dad were having problems, i new there was something going on and as my parents wouldnt talk about it, it made the family atmosphere really different.

[Siobhan]

yeah but things like that he is not the type to sit down and talk thats were we are not the same i will but he want itslike when i go on msn or something he gets the hump and starts saying iam seeing some one yeah right when all my contact are girls and 2 boys cousin and brother

Men get the hump with that all that time.. they think if you spend too much time on line than you are having an affair or something.. It is pathetic but then again if a man spends too much time online, women assume it is for porn!! You need to take one day where you don't go online and just sit and watch a movie with him or spend time just you and him to reassure him that you are not chatting with guys

[twinkle_eyes83]

Men get the hump with that all that time.. they think if you spend too much time on line than you are having an affair or something.. It is pathetic but then again if a man spends too much time online, women assume it is for porn!! You need to take one day where you don't go online and just sit and watch a movie with him or spend time just you and him to reassure him that you are not chatting with guys

dont get me wrong we tried all that and sit down every weekend then i take a leaf out of ems and hope on to msn when he is asleep

it was all ok when we were on hoilday but now its gone back to how it is before we whent away and when he gets in the kids see him for about 15 mins then thay are off to bed and at the mo i am thinking about putting my name down on the council list and getting my own place for just me and the kids and that can take anything up to 5 years so i have been told

[Siobhan]

at the mo i am thinking about putting my name down on the council list and getting my own place for just me and the kids and that can take anything up to 5 years so i have been told

it is bloody mental that you have to wait that long for a house. It is the same here in Ireland, 5 years and if you can't find anything you have to put your name down on a homeless list...

[*-Rooney-*]

your not over reacting im ean it can just be a case where you need your own space even a couple of hours because men do get that too its not just us who feel like we need space from them but i wouldnt worry about it

[Skits]

hope you managed to sort things or at least talk over the weekend twinkle_eyes83.

[twinkle_eyes83]

aww thanks for asking yeah we seem to have he come home after sitting in a carpark for an hour and he said 2 ducks whent buy looking for bread and he said that watching them made him think of me and how they stick together when times are rough and he did not even have a drink lol

[Skits]

ah that's sweet. you see no matter how mad they make you, they say something sweet then and your heart melts. hope everything works out for you now.