Grrrrrrrrrrrrr Men

[twinkle_eyes83]

well we had a big bust up last night garry was home late for work when he is late home he will phone me but no phone call so i phoned him and text him no answer grrrrrrr. he come in at 8.00pm last nite with the big hump he had his dinner then he turned in to a right **** head sorry girls had the hump over work and money then he chucked his cup accross the kitchin floor well i dont mind that but it was the cup i brought him for vals day so that put the cherry on the cake he did not even clean it up so i did and cut my finger at the same time grrrrrrrrrrrrr anyway he whent to the shop and brought 8 beers then come back and sat in the kitchin so i nicked 3 and i sat upstairs and he sat downstairs. do you think i am over reacting and we have not spoke to each other at all this morning and last night sorry its long

[Skits]

what is it with men and phones. it only takes a minute to make a call or text and say they'll be late but oh no, let us suffer and then take it out on us. i'd be more upset about the cup chucking to be honest. i'd wait and let him apologise.

[twinkle_eyes83]

thats what i was thinking and he still has not text me or even phoned to say sorry or anything

[Skits]

he's a man. what happens usually when you have a row?

[twinkle_eyes83]

the same but he dont chuck cups thats the thing and if he is late from work he will ring me

[Siobhan]

the same but he dont chuck cups thats the thing and if he is late from work he will ring me

did he say why he was so mad.. didn't something go wrong at work.. some people just have an off day.. not trying to defend him but something had to go really wrong if he never behaved like this before...

[Skits]

just wait and see what happens when he comes home but don't you go apologising. you done nothing wrong, only steal 3 of his cans! fair play to you!
feel free to ignore this advice if you want, i always ignore other peoples advice even when i know their right.

[twinkle_eyes83]

did he say why he was so mad.. didn't something go wrong at work.. some people just have an off day.. not trying to defend him but something had to go really wrong if he never behaved like this before...

nope nouthing like that just working late and money with bills and that and all i said to him was well its not my fault and that dont have a go at me then he walked out and chucked a cup across the kitchin floor then whent to the shop but he was acting really strange about a month ago like he did not want to be with me

[twinkle_eyes83]

just wait and see what happens when he comes home but don't you go apologising. you done nothing wrong, only steal 3 of his cans! fair play to you!
feel free to ignore this advice if you want, i always ignore other peoples advice even when i know their right.

oh dont worry about that i not going to say anying to him he started it not me i will just look after number 1 me and the kids

[Siobhan]

nope nouthing like that just working late and money with bills and that and all i said to him was well its not my fault and that dont have a go at me then he walked out and chucked a cup across the kitchin floor then whent to the shop but he was acting really strange about a month ago like he did not want to be with me

Ok, this sounds serious.. I think you need to talk to him to find out what is going on.. if he is behaving like he doesn't want to be with you then you need to find out now before it gets worse and the kids start to pick up on it... In the latter months before I seperated with my husband, Charley was getting really sick cause she was scared with the atmosphere in the house.. Your kids should become your priority