the first time

[leo~is~fit]

i am planning on having sex with my boyfriend for the first time soon. what advice can you give me on this subject please.

[Aunt Sally]

i am planning on having sex with my boyfriend for the first time soon. what advice can you give me on this subject please.

well firstly, are you sure your ready for such a big step- remember its illigal for under 16's to have sex in this country.

have you spoken to your doctor or family planning clinic? i would highly reccomend this as they will be able to give you all the information you need about STI's and concraception

don't feel pressured in to anything....if he is really worth it, he will wait

be safe, use protection

i'll try and find some site's

[Dr. Tangliss]

Have you been with your boyfriend long?

[leo~is~fit]

yes we been together for three months but we've liked each other for about a year. he has been my best boy mate for two years we have been out before for six months aswell.

[Dr. Tangliss]

May I ask, how old are you, and are you genuienely ready?

[alan45]

Its a big step think carefully

[Dr. Tangliss]

I agree.

[leo~is~fit]

i'll be sixteen in a few months. i am ready and i love him.

[Dr. Tangliss]

Can you not wait? If not, make sure you use contraception. Have you spoke to your GP about going on the pill?? It's confidential, so everything is between you and you doc.

[leo~is~fit]

yes i want to go on the pill, but i don't want my dad to find out cos he will kill me if he found out cos ma boyfriend is older than me