I have been pondering some of last weeks dialogue between
and
and just had a few comments to make, sorry if these have already been discussed.
When
said he is always going to find other people attractive, men & women. The statement is not strange. I cannot believe that
a young good looking gay man, if he saw a nice looking guys wouldn't find them attractive and I wished
had said to
"you must see attractive people but you don't act upon the attraction" just to validate his point as he left that sounding like it was only him. Its almost as if Aaron expects
to put blinkers on and never talk to anyone (I want you to want me, just me and no-one else) surely
has to be realistic, Robert like most normal people will see other people and think mmm...nice but has made it clear he won't act upon it he does want Aaron, only Aaron and no-one else, as others have said ED need to get these issues Aaron has dealt with properly.
Rebecca, I am torn with her at the moment, I can understand when she first returned she beelined to Robert for some 'rumpy pumpy' and she found that he was in a relationship with a man, she never knew he was into men, she was having sex with him the last time she saw him. She tried it on and Robert made it clear that his relationship with Aaron was very important to him and he loved Aaron. Once he made that clear she should have backed off so I am annoyed as everyone else that she continued to try it on. I think now Robert has been even clearer that he does not want Rebecca sexually, she seems to have accepted that.
I appreciate Aaron's building frustration with Rebecca and Robert's friendship but he has to accept that Robert needs friends and if it wasn't Rebecca it could be someone else Robert is friendly with and Aaron could get jealous, Robert needs to interact with other people otherwise their relationship is doomed.
Obviously, ideally we would prefer Robert to have friends who are not Rebecca but if he finds her funny and interesting as a friend then not allowing him to have that friendship will always be the elephant in the room for Robron.