Abaigail things will only happen if you want them to. If you don't want to sleep with a guy don't sleep with him if you don't want to your better than that. You've had it tough with a couple of guys treating you like sh!t but not all men are slimeballls you just have to troll through the slimeballs to find the decent men. Shiv is right don't go near men until you want to.